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Base Camp 2019 - Thursday and Friday Recap

7/13/2019

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We are wrapping up our basecamp experience, but not before pouring on some final activities and training! On Thursday, we started our morning by each camper lighting off his own fire that he built. Guess what?! Each young man successfully burned through the twine above his fire! It was encouraging to see some of the campers help others once their fire was big enough.
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We spent the entire day on Friday on a bluff that is an hour away from our property. It is one of our favorite spots to visit as a camp. It is secluded and offers great climbing and rappelling opportunities! The director of Victory Family Ministries, Mark Massey, led this trip with his years of climbing experience, training, and yes - his gummy bears! The campers enjoy even the simple things, as they try to catch gummy bears that are thrown their way throughout the day.
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Team building competitions are always a great way to spend our time at camp. Whether it is trying to get across an obstacle as a team or work each person through a tangles web of ropes, we put our campers in situations that they can experience success and failure as a team. Learning how to properly deal with both is vital for young men.
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We are thrilled to utilize our new bouldering room this summer! Many hours have been spent by our staff to get this room ready. Our guys loved pushing themselves past what they thought were their limits, as they learned how to navigate certain routes on the wall.
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A Passion for Adventure

5/22/2018

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Nobody fits perfectly into a stereotyped box. God has made each of us very unique, allowing us to function in different roles of society. However, we do see some general, overarching characteristics of mankind that were designed by God. These traits were instilled in us to help us accomplish the tasks that God has set before us. One of these tasks is what we have called, “The Creation Mandate.” This is the calling by God to have dominion over the earth, subdue it, fill it, and care for it. As you might imagine, this job is a huge undertaking – but incredibly rewarding! What traits might God have instilled in us to help us accomplish this task? I would argue that one of these traits would be a sense of adventure. Imagine yourself as Adam: God had tasked you with the care of the world He had just created. One of your first tasks was to name the animals, calling for the innate trait of creativity. That task alone would certainly call upon that spirit of adventure, as you walk along the creatures that God has brought to you to name. Although initiated by the fall of man, when Adam and Eve were kicked out of the Garden of Eden, God essentially opened the world up for them. Granted, the amount of work that was needed to care for the earth had increased exponentially (but even that work can be an adventure). There was a world that they had been tasked to care for that was ready to be explored and experienced!
 
We still are exploring and experiencing that world today. Generation after generation, history has shown us the adventurous spirit of mankind. Through God’s grace, we have accomplished much in the way of caring for the world He has given us – and there is still much left to do! Interestingly enough, our current generation of children and young adults have seemed to lose touch with some of this innate spirit of adventure – or, at least, have “reassigned” this spirit to something other than the physical world. They have turned their focus and have found a sort of “escape” into technology. Carl Pickhardt, in “Aspects of Adolescent Boredom," stated, “Tolerance for boredom, particularly among adolescents, has been greatly reduced in a world where escape into the many screens of electronic entertainment is so easily accomplished. We have created a culture in which many young children and adolescents have grown used to being electronically over-stimulated from birth, a condition that makes meeting the offline routine and repetitive demands of home and school difficult for many of them to endure. And as on-line escape increasingly substitutes for off-line engagement, as virtual world competence is gained at the expense of real world experience, practice dealing with real life challenges, shouldering real life responsibilities, and developing real life skills can decline.”
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So, where does that leave us? It leaves us with a generation that is disconnected from “real world experiences.” At WildHeart Adventure Camp, it is our desire to lead our campers to rediscover their sense of adventure. We offer outdoor experiences, such as rock climbing, white-water canoeing, backpacking along Lake Superior, and mountain biking. We give our campers the opportunity to experience God’s creation first-hand. Through teaching camping skills, we also encourage growth in leadership, responsibility, and respect. All of this is taught and led from a Christian worldview, with the purpose of encouraging our campers to live an adventurous life to the glory of God!
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Ben Barrick

Program Director

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The Myth of Teen Independence

3/5/2018

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Many parents may feel they want their teen on a road to independence yet, is independence really the goal for our teenagers or is total independence a myth?

At first every need from eating to well - you know - had to be taken care of by parents. That was the dependant stage.  Over the years more independence occurs and it should.  However, total independence is not the end goal.  In fact total independence is a myth and would be very lonely and unrewarding.  The real end game is something called interdependence.  Interdependence involves an appropriate amount of independence mixed with a good healthy amount of dependence too. 

God never intended for man to be alone.  In fact He said that it wasn't good.  From the start He gave man a woman. Later they became a family and eventually friendships occurred as well.  All of these represent dependency. As your teens transition into less dependence on family and friends, don't make the mistake of trying to force them to become too independent, self reliant and proud or resistant to advice.  Remember they still need parents for advice and wisdom, they'll need family for support and enjoyment, and they'll  need teachers, friends, pastors and others too. 

In addition, remember you need them as well. Let's face it, as we parents watch our kids grow up, we begin to realize that we need their love and friendship too. As they move into adulthood, we'll find that we need support from them, encouragement from them, talks with them and maybe even advice as they grow in their own relationship and walk with the Lord. No, we aren't talking about being a buddy and not being the authority in their lives when they are 15. We aren't talking about them needing to live in our basement until they are 27, but we are saying that we think an interdependence should be fostered as they move into their late teens and twenties. 

Finally, I'd be wrong if I didn't remind you of a truth I am sure you know.  Ultimately, our complete dependence is on God, our faithful loving friend.  Strive for interdependence. Enjoy needing others and be someone people need especially when it comes to your kids. 
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Video Games - Balancing the Fun and the Folly

2/20/2018

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Gaming. Is it good or bad?  We live in a world where digital gaming starts as early as infancy and goes through adulthood. (A man recently sued a gaming company because he became addicted to the game and lost his job.) No doubt there are many positive aspects of digital gaming too. Positive or negative, this ever increasing phenomena and the access our children have to it isn’t going away soon. (Last fall Activision bought the mobile phone game Candy Crush for $5.9 billion. – Yes, billion with a “b.”)
 
How do we as parents approach it? While there are many good resources out there with input on this question, we wanted to give you a few thoughts that are maybe outside of the normal ways to approach gaming as a parent, especially if it is becoming too much a part of your family’s life. 
 
Obviously if your teen is playing games to the exclusion of responsibilities, physical activity, good communication with others and so on, gaming is too high on the priority list.  If gaming has become your go to resource to keep your teen out of trouble, off the street, or away from unwholesome friends and if you’ve come to rely on it as a babysitter of sorts, gaming may be too high on your priority list.
 
Here are 3 ideas to help you counteract the gaming and replace it with some other activities that bring much better rewards than an extra life, a new spiro-zapper to kill the zombies or a bonus round.

  1. Have your teen take a Spiritual Gifts analysis. You can find a good one by clicking here.  Once you and your teen have an idea of the gifts he has been given by God to serve others, help him strengthen these gifts.  Make an appointment with your pastor or youth pastor to discuss the gifts your teen has and ask where they might be used in your church.  Think of ways your teen can serve with their gifts in your neighborhood, with people you know or at another local Christian organization like the YMCA, a Christian camp or charity. Tons of places need good volunteers. 
 
The good thing is that your teen will desire to help in these ways because one of the truths about our gifts is that God has wired us to want to use them.  Now, laziness may be another problem, but using our gifts is one of the best ways to beat the flaw of laziness too in our teens because they see results and are energized as they serve.

  1. Consider a summer Adventure Camp program. This will help your teen get active, enjoy the outdoors and learn some leadership, communication skills and teamwork. There are many great programs across the country.  One is our own WildHeart Adventure Camp. We would invite you to watch the video, compare our prices (hint – we are less expensive than others because we function as a ministry of Victory Academy for Boys.) and read about the skills your teen will learn at WildHeart.

  1. Help them start their own business. Here are 37 ideas to stir your thinking. If they aren’t the entrepreneur type, perhaps you can look at our article on helping kill the boredom in the summer where we give an idea for encouraging your teen to get busy at home with a point system that works for teens up through 17 years of age. Check it out here.
 
If you feel we can be of help to you or you are interested in WildHeart Adventure Camp, please contact us today.
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Here are the other 3 articles on Gaming that we came across recently. They aren’t all from Christian sources, but we felt you’d find them interesting.
 

 
 
Study Finds Video Games May Have Positive Effects on Kids
 
Researchers at Columbia Mailman School of Public Health and colleagues at Paris Descartes University and a number of other European universities assessed the association between the amount of time spent playing video games and children’s mental health and cognitive and social skills.  They found that playing video games may have positive effects… Click the link to read more.
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Certain Adolescent Brains Can’t Stop Gaming. That’s Good and Bad – Here’s Why

researchers employed magnetic resonance imaging on 106 boys ages of 10 to 19 — all of them seeking treatment for internet gaming disorder. The researchers then compared the findings to 80 boys without the disorder to see just how their neural wiring differed. Click the link to read more.
 
10 Things Every Parent Should Know About Gaming

A common trick young people pull is to ask extended family members and friends to give them games with higher ratings than appropriate for birthdays or as Christmas presents. If your kids have a generous grandmother or unassuming uncle from whom they typically receive gifts, make sure these folks know what your standards are and how to check ratings. Click the link to read more.
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5 Solutions When Your Son is Bored

3/19/2017

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Every parent knows that with the much anticipated breaks from school also come the much dreaded words we all hear. “I’m bored. There is nothing to do around here.” As most parents have experienced, if boredom is not dealt with strategically and successfully, it can quickly turn into major problems. From sleeping all day to sibling rivalry to worse. These are issues no parent enjoys facing.

Here are some suggestions to consider as you navigate the upcoming breaks.
  1. Implement a strategy where your son can earn points.  Points turn into cash, material items, trips and other things that individually motivate your teen. It may sound a bit childish, but I’ve seen teens up to 18 get excited about it if the incentives are right. It works something like this. There are two lists of jobs. One list is a daily/weekly list of regular routine chores that need to be done around the house.  Each week chores are successfully completed earns them 300 points. You can give partial points for less than 100% completion. A second list has items that can be done for extra points. This list is one that you build off your own “to-do” list from around the house, around the widow’s house next door, grandma’s house etc. It can include all kinds of items from cleaning out the junk drawer to trimming the hedges to weeding the garden. You decide a fair number of points for each job. Your son can choose which he’d like to do and when he’d like to do them. If you have jobs that arise or that need to be done at a certain time, negotiate points for the job with him like you would a contractor. In all cases, make the points worth it for him. As the weekly and extra points add up, he can trade them in at various levels for smaller rewards or save them for something bigger. Give some extra incentive for when he reaches certain levels. At 2500, he gets to have a friend over. At 4000, bowling with some buddies. These extra incentives don’t have to subtract from the totals. It is a great way to keep him busy and also reward his hard work. (Hint- Points can also be taken away for negative behavior, but use this option sparingly.) 
  2. Consider a camping experience. There are church camps that last a week. Mission trips, sports camps and adventure camps that last for several weeks.  Why not talk to another family and work to send your sons to camp together. Not only do these camps provide structure, excitement and enjoyment, but if chosen carefully can provide a lot of spiritual growth opportunity.
  3. Communicate. Make sure you are taking advantage of the extra time with your son. Take him to lunch, take a weekend trip together or binge watch some wholesome Netflix shows from your teen era. Here is a list of conversation starters you can use with your son if you need them.
  4. Stay involved in a church. Most churches provide some great youth group activities in the summer.  Get involved with a good Bible-believing church that will not only provide great worship opportunities for your family, but a great teen program for your son. Talk to the youth pastor if you’re concerned about your son. Perhaps they can provide some helpful suggestions or volunteer to spend some extra time with your son to work through a Bible study.
  5. Give them time to relax and refresh. School can be hard and students need some time off. Don’t be overly concerned with some sleeping in, video gaming and tv watching. Teens are only young once and most will work the rest of their lives. While a good work ethic is needed, don’t forget to let them be a teen while they can.

Breaks from school don’t have to be as stressful as it may seem. Plan ahead, talk it over with your son and create breaks from school that end up as pleasant memories for everyone involved.
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If we can be of help, please contact us at Victory Academy for Boys. We also invite you to learn more about our summer Adventure camp program called WildHeart.  Click on the picture below to watch the short video and learn more.
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